The Future Of The Mind

Michio Kaku, author of "THE FUTURE OF THE MIND", breaks down how his latest genius effort can change the human race and the way we live forever.

The Physics professor/writer explains how humans will be able to mentally control their surroundings; turning on lights, surfing the web, partaking in classrooms without physically being there, helping those with Alzheimer's remember again by the push of a button, mentally controlling robots to fight fires and mentally guiding robots in space. 

This groundbreaking science will no doubt help people that are disabled and will most certainly save many lives -- keeping firefighters, police officers, and astronauts safe etc. However, for humans who are able-bodied, how will it not make them lazy if they can mentally control everything without moving? 

The science behind this project is absolutely amazing and I can't wait to read the book, but if this new era of brain power seeks to make a society of people lazy and complacent -- I may have some serious doubts about this futuristic formula being available to all people. 

Maybe it can serve those that absolutely need it for disability purposes and life saving reasons. Other than that, giving able-bodied humans access to something like this would be like giving a television and remote control to a non-thinker; but I guess like any guilty pleasure one would need discipline to not live in excess?

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Be Full...Good Things Take Time

When you're "full" on the inside, when you realize that the riches that lie within you "fills" up your soul no matter what crazy obstacles one must endure -- that in itself is what keeps a person from insanity.

- My bank account is in the negative; I'm smiling.

- I'm not living my dream life yet; I'm happy.

- What I want is taking to long to come too pass; I'm blissful.

WHY?! 

Why are you blissfully beaming despite all these issues staring you in the face?!

One could argue that they're healthy, their family is healthy, and everything that you may want isn't here yet -- but all one's hard work gets you there little by little. 

You come to understand that things take time and that most of the time -- it's best that it happens that way. Rushing through anything worth while never makes things easier, instead, you comprehend that it only makes matters worse as you continuously go back time and time again to clean up what could've been prevented...if you took the time to properly prepare for it the first go around. 

In some cases, mistakes must happen in order to figure out a better way of doing something.

*Good relationships take time.
*Good careers take time.
*Good children take time.
*Good pets take time.
*Good homes take time.
*Good grades take time.
*Self-growth takes time.
*Good health takes time.
*Good inventions take time.
*Good government takes time.

I can go on and on with this list, but I think you get my drift.

#GTTT (Good Things Take Time)

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Tyler Perry's Profound Message

Are you a regular follower of TylerPerry.com?

If not, I thought it fitting to share one of his recent email blasts; although it was very realistic -- it was also extremely profound. 

Read. Take note. Embed the message.

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Tyler's email below:

Do you know how many times I tried to be successful at doing plays before it finally worked? From 1992 until 1998, every show I put on flopped. No one showed up, and I lost all my money. I wanted to give up. I thought I had failed, but the truth is, I never failed. Each and every time the show didn’t work, I learned something new. I learned what not to do and what I could do better. 

You have to understand that what you may perceive to be a failure may very well be an opportunity to learn, grow, get better, and prepare for the next level. If you find the lessons in what you perceive to be failures, then you won’t ever fail at anything. Everything I learned during the “learning” years (that’s what I call them now) has helped me in the “harvest” years (that’s what I’m living in now). 

Don’t be hard on yourself. You haven’t failed. Find the lesson so you can use it when you get to your harvest.  It’s coming, just believe. I don’t know why I felt the need to send this today, but I know it will reach whom it’s supposed to.

Tyler

Wife Annihilates Husband's Manhood On Family Feud

Steve Harvey

This is simply one you've got to see in order to believe.

When Family Feud game show host Steve Harvey, asks one contestant what is the one thing she'd change on her husband's body -- her answer froze time, and Steve's face!

Click here to watch the hilarious video.

#PoorHusband

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GOP Extremists and Muslim Extremists: Are They Really That Different?

Do you know what I've come to realize?

That although the extreme right-wing within America, constantly cry out that all Muslims are terrorists and that we should fight them at all costs -- putting our troops in harms way to obliterate the terrorist agenda from the Middle East; it would seem that many of our own American right-wing extremists share the "same" agenda. What do I mean?

What is the commonality between extreme far-right republicans and the extremists within the Muslim regime?

Both groups seem to hate societal change, therefore -- fighting to stay regressive instead of progressive with regards to women's rights, keeping the poor oppressed as a means of instituting supreme superiority which gives way to war and destruction, greed, and the use of ancient religion to make their points seem valid.

I also find it interesting that in our American Holy Bible, it speaks of stoning people to death for being disobedient or for adultery, however in America, I've never heard of anyone being stoned to death at least not as of late -- but do you know where I've recently heard of this kind of activity happening? 

That's right...in the Middle East, by the hands of Muslim extremists. I'm assuming that stoning people is also apart of the Quran? Fascinating that Americas "Christian" Bible and the Islamic "Muslim" Bible would share such similarities...wouldn't you say?

Granted, American women unlike many Muslim women -- can pretty much wear any kind of outfit we'd like, we're free to get an education, to drive, to show our hair, and can even contribute financially to our households. However, there was a time in America when none of this was possible for women, so we have indeed come a very long way and if we didn't fight for change -- we'd probably still be living our past. Which is why it's extraordinarily important to stay progressive.

Moreover, if we understand that there is good and bad in all kinds of people; good and bad Christians, good and bad Muslims, good and bad Jews etc., then wouldn't it make sense for the good people to align with the good and the bad to align with the bad? 

Couldn't bad American Christians align with bad Muslims or bad Jews in order to plot and plan attacks against the good Christians, good Jews, and good Muslims? Can you imagine having one of your own people (bad) send misinformed messages abroad to other "bad" people, simply for the purpose of carrying out horrible crimes for ones advancement? 

And then can you imagine those bad people injecting their ignorant followers with more propaganda, as a means of having their missions carried out?  

I guess if so many historical firsts hadn't recently happened it wouldn't have made me look to the past for answers -- such as the mass closings of abortion clinics, the turning back of civil and social rights, the seriousness of climate change and how the earth is getting hotter as the ocean is becoming more polluted, the ramp up of police corruption and violence, witnessing the least productive congress in American history, and of course having our first black president.

We've had some great historical firsts and some bad...but my goodness when the bad gets bad -- it's really bad.

On a side note: Do GOP extremists exploit Muslim extremism so profusely to the public, as a way of deterring people from the fact that the two groups aren't that much different?

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How to Control Your Negative Feelings

We've all been there before; there are times when you have good days and bad days, and it almost always seems effortless to stay positive on our good days -- but what about our bad days? Is it effortless to stay negative?

Actually, it takes more energy usage to be negative and stay negative, than it does when you naturally feel happy. Think about it; on a bad day you may frown (it takes energy to scrunch up your face), you may throw something (it takes energy to physically throw things), you may curse someone out (it takes energy to yell and scream), or you may just sulk in your own misery which causes all kinds of negative -- and at times evil thoughts to occur.

Once you begin spiraling into the abyss of dark negative energy, it takes that much more energy just to pull yourself out of the slump that YOU created; that's right, no one else created it for you but YOU.

It never feels good to feel bad which is why more often than not -- people prefer to be and stay happy. Some people equate happiness with love, or material things, or opportunities, or getting your way, and we almost always forget to equate happiness with waking up everyday, or being blessed with good health, or having unfettered access to clean water, or not being hungry, or being grateful for having a roof over our heads and clothes on our backs -- you know...the simple things that would be absolutely detrimental if we didn't have them.

Life is complicated yes, and we will always have obstacles as obstacles are inevitable -- however, when you find yourself going to the "dark place" for whatever the reason may be -- just remember that there are other people who have it way worse than you and the fact that you woke up in a bed, under a roof, with food, water and energy to get your day started...should be enough to put a smile on your face while thanking the lord above for giving you a chance to try, try, try again.

For me faith and my spiritual guiders is what steers me clear of negativity when I feel it coming on. If you're a person who isn't a faith believer, maybe meditation would suit you well -- because it's literally a calming process that will allow your negative feelings to dissipate, while giving you complete solace in your ability to make it through to the next day.

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PERSONAL TESTIMONY FOR A HOOD TALKS

When I started A HOOD TALKS, it was in response to an Illinois Senator by the name of Barack Hussein Obama and although I had never heard of this man or followed Americas political agenda — his words and the way he delivered them stuck with me and I was formally introduced to the political process, and why it was so important for people like me to get involved.

Never before did I realize how much power the average American had with regards to how things worked in Washington, and I didn’t comprehend how government exercised authority so getting involved was the last thing on my mind. I REGARDED THE WHITE HOUSE AS SOMETHING THAT “WHITE PEOPLE” RAN AND THOUGHT MY VERY EXISTENCE WAS RESTRICTED TO THE NEIGHBORHOOD IN WHICH I LIVED.I regarded The White House as something that “white people” ran and thought my very existence was restricted to the neighborhood in which I lived. Although I’ve always dreamed very big it would seem that my family and “my hood” was it; everything I’d become and all that I’d learn could fit neatly into a small box.

It wasn’t until college, that I comprehended there was way more to life than just “my hood” and that big dreams can indeed come true. As I sought out opportunities on enormous scales in college and after college, eventually “life” happened in a way I had never experienced it before; discrimination, racism, sexism and inequality would leave me with wounds that deeply scarred my foundation — causing it to remain shaken and unstable for a long time.

My open wounds triggered anger and resentment, in which I thought it was impossible to ever regain back that childlike purity again. Moreover, I wasn’t given certain tools by my parents that would’ve helped me navigate through the perils of life, as they were so consumed with struggle, survival and anger towards their oppressors which hindered my “life” education. I was a sheep walking amidst wolves and because I was blind to this fact, “my person” became easy prey.

Fast forward to 2008, when the possibility of having our first black president in the history of the United States seemed to wake up sleeping giants (myself included), and intrigued America enough to pay attention to the political atmosphere. It also triggered me to read a lot of history books, as I became extremely curious about Americas racial plight and why 43 presidents later we were just voting in our first black Commander-in-Chief; granted I was fully aware of racism by this point but like I expressed earlier, I just assumed The White House was for white people because that had been the status quo.

Gaining knowledge of American and international history completely blew my mind, and all the dots began connecting like a jigsaw puzzle.

I was not only overcome with emotion and at times anger due to discovering in detail how we all came to be in America, but I also incurred a fundamental understanding of my place in history and why it was so important to make sure that Barack Obama was elected as our next president; not just because he was black but because he comprehended my struggle — our struggle, and his vision and mission was something I strongly believed in. Thus, A HOOD TALKS was born and my political fire was forever lit.THUS, A HOOD TALKS WAS BORN AND MY POLITICAL FIRE WAS FOREVER LIT.

As I acquired community organizing skills by partaking in the election and re-election of President Obama, I veered off course into other topics that interested me such as LGBTQ issues, celebrity gossip and out-of-the-box meanderings. In doing so I’ve learned a great deal about life but most recently I’ve learned, that just because I may have an opinion about something it doesn’t necessarily mean that I should always voice it.

Sometimes just being informed is enough and although many of my articles can be deemed as “controversial”, I still wouldn’t delete any of them because they’re testament to how far I’ve come with my mental evolution.

However, moving forward I’ll try to be less controversial — still opinionated yes, but more inclined to empower verses dis-empower because the latter can be contagious, and I’m at a point in my life where even though I want to keep you thinking I also want to make you feel good in the process. Executing my purpose in life means leading by example tenfold, and not simply half-assing it.

Thank you to all my old and new readers for riding with me, and I hope you’ll stick around for more creative wordplay coming at you from my “neck of the hood.”

#AHT #Testimony #FindingMyVoice #UpFromHere #Ephiphany #LifeLessons

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Is AD/HD an Excuse for Poor Parenting?

Have you ever watched the OWN network?

It's an incredibly thoughtful television station geared towards teaching useful life lessons, that of course houses other shows for entertainment purposes.

One show in particular that I found compelling was a Lisa Ling special on 'Our America', where Lisa tackled the hard questions about children who suffer from the diagnosis of AD/HD or 'Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder'. During the special, I watched the suffering children closely and listened to their stories given by themselves and their parent/s.

One child would impulsively act out in school, calling himself a "f*cking stupid idiot" while calling his teacher a "f*cking b*tch". This kind of behavior was acted out by a child who was only a kindergartner at the time, and immediately I wanted to question the single mother who was raising the child. I wanted to ask where did her son learn such language, and how did he know the way in which to put those words together? But no one ever asked the mother these questions, instead the child was blamed for simply having a mental condition that needed correcting. He received medication that made him sick to the point of vomiting and when that didn't work, his mother found a program at the Hunter School which concentrated on a holistic approach to helping her son....and it worked.

Another child who appeared to be super intelligent was also told that he suffered from AD/HD, because he had difficulty focusing on his homework and almost always had to do something to stay busy. The boy constantly squirmed in his chair and his hands were almost always moving. The child expressed how his mind moved quickly as he thought about many things at one time which hindered his focus. The mother made her son aware that he had an issue that could only be treated with medical attention, and she took the necessary steps to get her son medication for his "condition". Once the child received the medication that he was told would help him, within an hour he was able to focus his attention on one thing at a time.

A third child was the youngest of four teenage siblings and had been using AD/HD medication for some time, after his parents deemed him to be to impulsive. The parents explained that the medication was a temporary fix to their youngest sons problem, but was glad that it allowed him to function and focus well in school. Both parents are educators and raising five children; immediately I wondered if the youngest fifth child simply lacked much needed attention since his parents carried quite a load; the load being students, paperwork, four teenagers, and the job of being husband and wife. All of that coupled together with any extra curricular activities could leave a young child feeling neglected and alone -- hence, the reason for impulsive behavior.

I'm not a doctor nor do I pretend to be and I do believe that there are children who may have disabilities that need medical attention, however when I saw these kids and honed in on their family environments it triggered red alerts for me -- and not in the way that the parents were triggered.

Instead of seeing an ill child, I saw a child being raised by a single mother who was obviously stressed from the pressure of being a single mother, working to make ends meet and probably not having enough energy to spend raising her child.

And in the case of the two parent household, I saw adults being spread thin by trying to meet all their deadlines and probably hoping that their eldest teenagers could lend a helping hand with their youngest sibling. But when you're a teenager, how often do you really want to spend time with your baby brother? Take it from me, my eldest brother hated having to take me with him everywhere just because my mother made him, and most of the time he simply dropped me off somewhere else without my mother knowing, therefore, leaving me neglected and vulnerable to predators.

I once had a friend who has two children (a boy and a girl) and she constantly screamed at them, and as she would throw her yelling fits coupled with profanity she made it her business to tell her children how stupid they were -- and that they had AD/HD which made them crazy. These children acted out like animals, were hyper impulsive and couldn't keep still. I babysat them multiple times and never once did I have to yell, curse, or demean them with horrible words, I simply talked to them and was patient with them which seemed to calm the children down. And never once did I need to give them their medication while under my watch.

Their mom was also a single mother who was struggling to make ends meet, and who was constantly stressed out by her relationship with her boyfriend. I understood her pressures which is why I offered a hand in helping with the kids; my household was calm and my reaction towards the children was quite different, which often made them not want to leave my home.

My experience with AD/HD children wasn't that they needed medication or mental help, they needed quality time in a calming environment that praised, encouraged, and empowered them. They needed to understand their feelings so that it'd be easier to cope, and they needed brain stimulating activities to keep them busy. 

As parents, sometimes it's easy to forget that children begin their learning journey from birth, and that children literally soak up everything that they see and hear. Words carry tremendous weight and if used improperly it could traumatize children, to the point of impulsive behavior. Neglection is another traumatic thing that can isolate a child -- leaving them to raise themselves which they don't know enough to do that and ultimately, bad habits can ensue.

Parents come from all walks of life and have different educational backgrounds, which believe it or not can play a huge part in how your child is raised. We teach what we know, and I praise those parents that do try to seek out help for their children when they notice that something isn't right. But it isn't always that your kid has a mental issue, sometimes it's just that the parents don't know how to be parents or simply don't have enough time to be the best parents that they can be.

And instead of being so quick to medicate your child, step

back and take a look at yourselves and ask the question "Am I doing enough" or "Am I doing something wrong?" Nobody likes to be told how to raise their child, but sometimes a parenting class can do a world of wonder.

My motto is: If you want to be a parent, first practice with getting a puppy (not a cat because cats are self-sufficient), not a dog, but a puppy because it hasn't been molded yet -- and however that puppy turns out is a direct reflection of how you raised it. If you can train your puppy to be calm, potty trained, to learn and obey, then you could be well on your way to being a great parent. But if you can't train your puppy to do these things then you should make proper changes, in order to make sure that you're on the right parenting track. 

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